Dating Essentials for Men by Robert Glover

Author:Robert Glover [Glover, Robert]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2019-06-04T04:00:00+00:00

Break the Catch 22

Most bad daters complain that confidence with women is a Catch 22. They believe you have to have confidence to get a woman, but you have to have success getting women to gain confidence. This is a false belief.

“Confidence” is the product of not caring too much about what people think.

“Lovingly not giving a fuck” what people think allows you to interact with women and confidently engage them. I’ve known men who have had lots of success with women, but still utterly lacked confidence. Contrary to your inner-logic, success and confidence are not related.

Talk to People Everywhere You Go

This is practice for building confidence. The more you do it, the more confident you will feel. When one of the people you happen to be talking to is a woman you find attractive, you will just do what you have been doing every day. You will feel and appear confident. Don’t wait until you see an attractive woman you want to talk to. Start talking to everyone now.

Set the Tone/Take the Lead

Most bad daters are afraid of being controlling, “bad” men. Therefore they approach women passively:

•“I don’t guess you’d want to go out with me sometime would you?”

•“What would YOU like to do?”

This passively pleasing attitude doesn’t make women think you are respectful, it makes them think you are wimpy. A healthy woman wants a man to take the lead. She doesn’t want to be in control and she doesn’t want a wimp.

An integrated male can set the tone and take the lead without being controlling. Decide how you want to live your life and invite a woman to follow.

Always remember, a woman can’t follow where a man doesn’t lead.

Tell, Don’t Ask

Tell a woman to do what she already wants to do (even if she doesn’t know it yet).

This projects confidence and mojo. When you tell a woman what to do, with no attachment to outcome, you will appear to have greater status than her, this will turn her on.

Never ask a woman for her phone number, say “give me your number.” Never ask a woman if she wants to go out with you, tell her “meet me Tuesday at 7:00 at Starbucks.”

Never ask a woman if she wants to have sex, tell her “take your clothes off and get in my bed.” It is amazing how many women have told me “I can’t believe you’re telling me what to do” as they are unbuttoning their blouse!

Take Action

Action projects mojo. Sexual interest is communicated through action – not discussions. Don’t talk about it, just do it!

A while back in a group I led for single men, one of the guys mentioned that he had a date the next weekend with a woman he met at speed dating. The group member had been talking about this woman in group for about four weeks. Even though they had actually only spent about an hour and half together in addition to the seven-minute speed date, they had been talking on the

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